Spikes as a Reward? Yes, Some Subs Want It That Way

You’d think spikes are a punishment, right? That painful little surprise for stepping out of line? Well, not always. Some submissive guys see them as a treat—something they earn when they've pleased their keyholder.

Yep. A handful of subs actually crave that extra sting. Not because they’ve been bad, but because they’ve been so good. It's twisted in the best way.

One customer told us his girlfriend only locks in the spike insert when he’s been extra obedient. It’s her way of saying, “You did everything I asked… now you get your favorite pain.” And he loves it. The idea that she’s proud enough to give him something sharper than normal? He says it makes him feel owned, noticed, and special.

It’s not about sadism. It’s about intention.

Some keyholders use spiked cages to reward—not punish. It’s like flipping the script. Want your sub to beg for that reward? Tell him those little teeth only come out when he’s your perfect pet. Watch how fast chores get done.

And it’s practical too. Most cages with spikes are small, snug, and designed to remind him constantly who he belongs to. He can’t ignore them. Every step, every thought, is about you.

Important tip: Always start slow. Don’t toss spikes on a newbie just because it sounds fun. Let them try the regular cage first, learn what tightness feels like, then move to the spiked version once they're really ready. Otherwise, you’re jumping into pain without the payoff.

So yes, for some subs, spikes aren't a punishment—they’re the gold star. The reward. The prize at the end of the chastity rainbow.

Just another reason we say: there’s no “normal” in chastity. Only what turns you two on.

Want to explore spike cages for your sub? Check out our spiked chastity collection – we’ve got styles that sting just right.