12 Keyholder Command Ideas — Short, Dirty, Practical

1. Morning Plug & Lock
I make you insert a small plug before breakfast and lock the cage. Wear it through the morning routine — shower, coffee, commute. Purpose: constant reminder. Rule: start with a size you can sit in for 2–3 hours without panic.

2. Chore Pump Challenge
You clean one room, I add one pump to the inflatable plug. Finish five rooms = +5 pumps. I watch or check photos. Purpose: chore reward/punishment. Limit: stop if it gets painful or you can’t walk.

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3. Punishment Plug Time
Mess up (miss a check-in, lie, whatever) = 4 hours in a medium plug with light vibration. No release, no complaining. Purpose: humiliation + discomfort. Safety: remove immediately if numbness, extreme pain, or discoloration.

4. Edge-and-Hold with a Plug
I make you edge twice while wearing a plug; after the second edge I lock the cage and inflate the plug slightly. No orgasm; only breathing through it. Purpose: maximum tease. Time cap: 20–30 minutes total for edges; stop if distress.

5. Stretching Schedule (“Graduation”)
Week 1: tiny plug all day. Week 2: next size in evenings. Week 3: medium during chores. Earn the next size by completing small tasks. Purpose: steady, consensual training. Rule: 48–72 hours between size jumps.

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6. Public Tease Walk
Put in the plug, wear a discreet cage, go grocery shopping. Every time you check your phone I get a photo or message proving you’re still wearing it. Purpose: secret humiliation + control. Safety: no full-thickness inflatables in public; keep it comfortable.

7. Reward Plug Wear
Good behavior = permission to wear a sexy jeweled plug for an hour while I video-call you. You get praise, maybe permission for light stimulation (still no release). Purpose: positive reinforcement.

8. Timed Denial Drills
I lock you for a set block (e.g., 48 hours) with a small plug for daytime wear and a slightly larger plug for sleep. You log hourly check-ins. Purpose: endurance + obedience training. Rule: one mandatory in-person/keyholder check at 24 hours if possible.

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9. Sensation Swap
You wear a cold stainless plug for 15 minutes, then switch to warm silicone for 15 minutes. I control the switch and record reactions. Purpose: sensory contrast = heightened awareness. Safety: avoid temperature extremes.

10. Toy Rotation Routine
I assign a rotation: day 1 small plug, day 2 ribbed mini, day 3 inflatable at low pressure. Keeps you guessing and prevents desensitization. Purpose: variety + control.

11. Humiliation Orders
Wear a plug while completing an embarrassing task (read aloud a sissy script, take an awkward photo). I pick the task. Purpose: psychological edge. Safety: keep tasks legal and within consent boundaries.

12. Emergency Release Token
You get one token per week for emergency removal. Use it only for real issues (pain, medical). Token burned = consequence (extra task). Purpose: trust + boundaries.

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